Showing posts with label Jacob. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jacob. Show all posts

Friday, January 28, 2011

From a Slave to one who Saves (Gen. 41-46)

"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."  (James 1:2-4, ESV)

Do you remember this verse?  Those of you who were present for our first "read through the Bible" discussion during the Bible class hour may recall that I had you write this down in your notes and recommended you commit it to memory.  You may be more familiar with the NIV translation, which is why I chose this version to make you really pause and consider the words and their meaning. 

Read that verse again, with Joseph and all he has been through in mind.  I'm serious, read it again with Joseph in mind.

Now read it again and consider all the other patriarchs:  Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.

Do you see the truth of those words played out in their lives?  I sure do!  God and time are incredible teachers--the best.  God and lessons learned over time turned Jacob from a deceitful younger brother into a humble leader of God's chosen people.  God and time turned Joseph from a spoiled-rotten, bragging dreamer into a wise man of God ready to save the lives of many people.

I want to share with you what I have learned from Joseph's life:
  1. Genesis 41:1 tells us how long Joseph was in jail after interpreting the cupbearer and baker's dreams.  He had asked the cupbearer to remember him and tell Pharoah about him, but the cupbearer forgot.  How long was Joseph in jail after that incident?
  2. What does the cupbearer say to Pharoah when no one can interpret his dreams?  (Gen. 41:9)  Ouch.  I hate to be reminded of my shortcomings.
  3. Things move pretty fast at this point, because Pharoah wants some answers.  What does Joseph say to Pharoah when he finally appears before him?  (Gen. 41:16)  That's called wisdom, my friend.  That's giving glory where glory is due.
  4. Pharoah recognizes the wisdom of God in Joseph.  What does he say and do in Gen. 41:39-40?
Here is where I want you to pause and consider something. 
  • Read Gen. 41:36.  How old was Joseph at this point?
  • Go back to Gen. 37:2.  How old was Joseph when he was tending the flocks with his brothers and they sold him into slavery?
  • Math quiz:  how many years was Joseph in slavery and jail in Egypt?  
Stop and think about that.  Really let that sink into your head.  Joseph was in slavery and jail for 13 years.  13 years!  What have you done with your life for the last 13 years that you would have missed if you had been in slavery and jail that whole time?  Crazy thought, isn't it?

Here's the clencher.  We don't read one single hint that Joseph was bitter or sat around pouting, complaining about the evil his brothers had done to him and how unjust his circusmstances were.  What did Joseph do, not having any idea how long he would be in slavery or jail?  What did he do when another year went by and it must have seemed even more hopeless?  What did he do when the cupbearer forgot to mention him to Pharoah? 

Joseph gave everyone his best.  Joseph gave God his best.  That's what he did.  He epitomized Colossians 3:23:  "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men."  Do you do that?

Go back and reflect on Gen. 39:3-6, 20-23.  This was the testimony of a great God working through a willing servant.  Sister, that is a recipe for being made "perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."  Oh that you and I would be so willing to endure trials of many kinds so that perseverance might be produced in us like Joseph!

Once again, under the authority of Pharoah, Joseph gives God his best.  He is responsible for saving the lives of all the Egyptians during the famine, as well as many people coming from all over to buy grain from him.  He also gets married and has two sons--Manasseh and Ephraim--who will be key players in the 12 tribes of Israel.

In chapter 42, the famine becomes so severe in Canaan that Jacob sends his 10 oldest sons to Egypt for grain.  Can you blame him for keeping Benjamin at home?  He's not going to make that mistake again and risk losing the only son he has left from Rachel.
  1. What happens in Gen. 42:6?  Compare that with Gen. 37:5-11.  What just happened when Joseph's brothers came to get grain from him?  Never doubt what God has clearly told you, sister, even if it takes 13 years...or a lifetime...to come to fruition! 
  2. What did Joseph do in Gen. 42:8-9?
  3. What happens in vv. 22-24?
Can you even imagine being in Joseph's shoes at this moment?  The wave of emotions that swept over him as he saw his brothers for the first time in 13 years, remembered his dreams about them, remembered what they had done to him, and wondered about his father and younger brother Benjamin must have been like a tidal wave threatening to sweep him away.

Poor Jacob.  When his sons return home and explain the whole story, he is crushed.  His words make me so sad for him in Gen. 42:36.  Reuben is ready to make things right (remember when he convinced the brothers not to kill Joseph and had planned to bring him back to Jacob?), but Jacob is not about to let his youngest son out of his sight.

But the famine is severe, and they really need food.  So Judah does a noble thing as the one from whom our precious Savior would one day come. 
  1. What does he say to his father Jacob in Gen. 43:9?
  2. What does Joseph do the minute he sees Benjamin?  (Gen. 43:16)
  3. I love what Joseph's steward says to them in Gen. 43:23.  To whom does he give the credit for their blessings?
  4. What do the brothers do again in v. 26? 
  5. What does Joseph seem concerned about in v. 27?
  6. What happens in v. 30?
  7. What was surprising to all the brothers in v. 33?
  8. In chapter 44, which brother pleads for mercy from Joseph because he has guaranteed the safety of Jacob's youngest son, offering to become a slave in his place?  (starting at Gen. 44:18)
This beautiful offer on Judah's part to be the substituionary slave (any hint of Jesus there?) is more than Joseph can take.  He is convinced that his brothers are truly repentant for what they did to him and would never do the same to his brother Benjamin.  He sees their changed hearts after years of watching their father grieve Joseph's supposed death.  No longer able to control himself, Joseph reveals his identiy to his shocked brothers.
  1. What did this shocking news do to his brothers?  (Gen. 45:3)
  2. Who does Joseph say is the one responsible for him being sold into Egypt in Gen. 45:5, and why?
  3. Why else did God do this?  See Gen. 45:7
"So it was not you who sent me here, but God."  (Gen. 45:8)  Those words could only come from one who has endured trials, faced the testing of his faith, and remained steadfast through difficult times.  God and time are excellent teachers.

Joseph sends his brothers off to get their father, sending all sorts of carts and provisions with them.  I absolutely love the words that describe Jacob's response when he heard the good news: "the spirit of their father Jacob revived."  (Gen. 45:27)   Thirteen years of grieving...done!

But that doesn't hold a candle to the beauty of their reunion in Gen. 46:29-30.  Try to picture that precious scene and the longing it fulfilled for both of them.  God is so very good.

Notice at the beginning of chapter 46 that God appears to Israel in a vision and tells him to not be afraid to go to Egypt.  Not only that, but He assures Jacob that He will go with him and will bring him back to the promised land again.  Friend, I want you to know that if God sends you somewhere to fulfill His purposes, He will go with you and be your God in that place of calling.

So all 70 of them, plus his daughters-in-law and all the servants, as well as all their flocks and belongings, set out for Egypt.

Who lead the whole caravan of Israel?  "Now Jacob sent Judah ahead of him to Joseph...." (Gen. 46:28)  How appropriate.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

The Dreamer (Gen. 34-40)

Since I didn't get to write a blog yesterday, I'm going to squeeze these readings into one and focus on the key passages.  The only daughter of Jacob that we are told any specifics about is Dinah, although Gen. 37:35 implies that he had more than one daughter.  Dinah was born of Leah, and she was apparently rather beautiful--no "weak eyes" like her mother.  This daughter caught the eye of the son of the prince of the land, and he became consumed with longing for her.  He gets things rather backwards and acts upon his longings before asking her hand in marriage.  Not a smart thing to do to a girl who has 11 brothers.  As God says in verse 7, "...for such a thing must not be done."

As you know, this young man Shechem learned his lesson, and all the men of his land along with him.  Nothing like taking the whole city down with you in your inability to control your desires!  Jacob reprimands his two sons Simeon and Levi for doing such an evil thing, because revenge is not our job but the LORD's (Gen. 32:35).  He is concerned about the trouble this will bring upon him and his people.  When we come to chapter 49 in a few days and Jacob is blessing each of his sons before he dies, you will see how their sin in this incident plays into their blessing (or curse) at the end of their father's life.

Read Gen. 35:1-15 again.
  1. To where does God tell Jacob to go in v. 1?
  2. What was the significance of this place?  (see Gen. 28:10-22)
  3. Have you ever revisited a place in which you encountered God and He did something significant in your life?  If you have, write about it.  What was it like to go back there and remember what God had done in your life at that time?  How different of a person were you in going back than at the time of that original encounter?  What a time of worship such an experience can be!  If you haven't done this, keep this concept in mind...I have a hunch you will have the opportunity to erect some memorial stones this year on your journey with God.
  4. What did Jacob tell everyone in his household to do?  How does Jacob describe God in v. 3?
  5. What did God do to the peoples of the lands through which they were journeying back to Canaan in v. 5?
  6. In verses 9-15, what does God do, and what does Jacob do?
In verses 16-21, Rachel gives birth to another son, but she dies in child-birth.  Benjamin is now Jacob's youngest son, brother to Joseph by the same mother--the wife whom Jacob loved.  This relationship will come into play when Joseph's brothers come to Egypt for grain in tomorrow's readings.

Take note of verse 21.  I love firsts!  This is the first time Scripture refers to him as Israel rather than Jacob.  We will see both names used for him throughout the Bible, but it seems that he is referred to as Israel when he is representing God's people.  Try to notice as you read and see what you think.

In verses 23-26 we get a re-cap of which sons were born to which wives, and now Jacob has 12 sons.  These are not the exact 12 tribes of Israel, as you will find out in a few days.  But we'll wait till we get there to cover that.  At the end of ch. 35, Isaac dies and is buried by his two sons Esau and Jacob.  I love the wording used for both Abraham's death and now Isaac's:  "...he died and was gathered to his people, old and full of days."  I want to be "full of days" when I die, how about you?  Not just mindless, meaningless time spent here on planet earth, but "full" days of walking with the Lord and doing His will.  And I definitely want to be "gathered to my people" in God's Kingdom!

"By faith Isaac invoked future blessings on Jacob and Esau." (Hebrews 11:20)  That's all we read about Isaac in the "hall of faith" in Hebrews 11.  Dear sister, especially fellow moms, I believe there's a message for us in that.  If you are a parent, some of the most significant work you do for the Kingdom of God is raising those children to live for Him and His glory, carrying on the work begun for God in previous generations. 

If you recall, it wasn't really Isaac's idea to give Jacob the first-born blessing.  He was tricked into it by his wife and son.  Yet he didn't go back on what he had said and change the blessing, thus God commends Isaac for this in Hebrews.  Isaac went with it and trusted that God had allowed him to do that for a reason and would bring good from it.  Will you trust what God allows, believing He can bring good out of it?  "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose."  (Romans 8:28, ESV)

We read in Gen. 36 that God blessed both Jacob and Esau so much that they had to go separate ways, just as Abraham and Lot had to do.  Jacob, of course, stayed in the land of Canaan because God had promised him that land.  We also learn in verse 31 that kings reigned from Esau's descendants before the nation of Israel ever had kings of their own.  God was their only king for many years, until the time of Samuel the prophet, when Saul became the first king of Israel.

Genesis 37 is when the story of Joseph begins to get interesting, leading us into the next phase of Israel's history.
  1. How old was Joseph when these events began to happen?  (v. 2)
  2. What did Jacob do that caused much conflict between Joseph and his 10 older brothers (who were all grown men by now)?
  3. What stupid thing did Joseph do in vv. 5-9?
  4. The brothers were naturally angry and jealous, but what did Joseph's father Jacob do in v. 10 and then at the end of v. 11?
You know the story.  The spoiled younger brother goes to check on his older brothers (what was Jacob thinking?), wearing his colorful coat, of course.  This one is so full of drama, it has even made its way onto the Broadway stage.

The brothers plot to kill him, but the oldest brother Reuben shows some maturity and keeps them from spilling his blood.  His plan is to take Joseph back to his father after teaching him a lesson in humility.  But then he does a foolish thing and goes off on his own long enough for the other brothers to sell Joseph into slavery...to Ishmaelites at that.  This is a key moment in Israel's history, bringing to pass the prophecy God spoke to Abraham in Gen. 15:13-16.

But let's not skip over the brothers throwing Joseph into a pit.  Now that's enough fodder for a whole lesson in itself.  Ever been "thrown into a pit" by people you thought you could trust, maybe even your own family?  Was it partly your own fault because of your arrogance or another sin, like Joseph?  Here is where I am going to highly recommend Beth Moore's book Get Out of that Pit.  Whether you slipped in (on your own), jumped in (on your own), or were thrown in (by others), your Redeemer and Deliverer can pull you out.  But He alone can get you out of that pit.

God got Joseph out of the pit.  It didn't look too promising at first, as he was sold into slavery, but remember God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called accoring to His purposes (paraphrase of Rom. 8:28).  All this evil God allowed to be done to Joseph makes perfect sense when we arrive at the end of Genesis, and especially when we see the ultimate fulfillment in Christ.  Please know for certain that God does not cause evil--our own sin causes that.  But He will allow it when He can use it to raise up a person for His glory.  (We will get heavily into this in next week's readings in Job.)
  1. Whose idea was it to sell Joseph? (v. 26)
  2. Where did the Ishmaelites take Joseph? (v. 28)
  3. What did Reuben do when he saw that Joseph was gone? (v. 29)
  4. What did the brothers do to explain this to their father Jacob?
Read Gen. 36:35.  I wonder what was going on in the minds of Jacob's sons as they sought to comfort their father.  Guilt, perhaps?  I hope so.  They got to live with this guilt for many years, too.  Oh the regrets of rash behavior in a moment of anger!  But none of them were man enough, or humble enough, to confess what they had done to their father. 

We can relate, right?  Sometimes we are not humble enough to confess what we've done to our Father.  We think the person was getting what they deserved.  Dangerous ground, dear friends.  “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."  (Luke 6:37)  Withholding forgiveness is just not worth it, and Joseph understood this.  That's why his story is the one full of God's blessings and prosperity, not his brothers'.

We've seen the sin of Simeon and Levi's anger at Shechem, we watched Reuben unsuccessfully try to save Joseph, and now we watch Judah commit a disgusting sin with his daughter-in-law.  The encounter between Judah and Tamar in Genesis 38 is a disappointing one, but it is also an important one to remember. 
  • Turn to Matthew 1.  In verse 3, whose name do you find in the geneology of Christ?
Only four women are mentioned in Jesus' lineage, and all of them have somewhat scandalous stories.  Tamar prostituted herself to deceive Judah, Rahab was a prostitute and a Gentile (not of the Hebrew nation), Ruth was a Moabitess (i.e. a Gentile) and she laid down at Boaz' feet hoping he would take her as his wife, and Bathsheba was brought into King David's chambers to have relations with him while she was still Uriah's wife.  How's that for the Holy Child's female ancestors?

Why did God include these women's names in Matthew's account of Christ's lineage?  Could it be that God wants us to realize that He can take a messed up life, one of a former pit-dweller, and use it for good and for His glory?  I personally think so.  Like Jesus, you may have some scandalous stories in your ancestry.  But just like Jesus, that doesn't have to be the end of the story.  God can redeem anything and anyone.  I praise Him that He does and that He redeemed me!

In Genesis 39 we watch as Joseph's story continues to unfold.  He is now in the service of Potiphar, and it is very apparent the LORD is with Him.  We read that the LORD blesses Potiphar because of Joseph.  But then his wife has to go and mess it all up, because apparently Joseph is rather handsome.
  1. What did God do to redeem this wrong done to Joseph?  See vv. 21-23.
  2. Then what happens in ch. 40 with the cupbearer and the baker?
  3. To whom does Joseph give credit/glory in verse 8?
  4. What does he ask of the cupbearer in v. 14?  Did he?  (v. 23)
Not only does God give Joseph dreams, as he did at the beginning of our readings, but now the LORD grants him the ability to interpret dreams.  This was only possible because Joseph knew that the interpretation came from God and not himself.  No wonder God kept blessing Joseph and everyone for whom he worked!  Joseph's life was a testimony of God's glory.  And it's about to get even better in the next chapter.  We'll talk about that tomorrow.  Let's end with Joseph's testimony to God's goodness.

His master saw that the LORD was with him and that the LORD caused all that he did to succeed in his hands.  (Gen. 39:3)  So he left all that he had in Joseph’s charge, and because of him he had no concern about anything but the food he ate.  (Gen. 39:6)

But the LORD was with Joseph and showed him steadfast love and gave him favor in the sight of the keeper of the prison.  (Gen. 39:21)  The keeper of the prison paid no attention to anything that was in Joseph’s charge, because the LORD was with him. And whatever he did, the LORD made it succeed.  (Gen. 39:23)

Monday, January 24, 2011

A Limp, a Humbled Spirit, and a New Name (Gen. 30-33)

Are you completely riveted by Jacob's story?  His is a powerful one--lots of lessons we can take away from the chapters of his life.  In today's readings, we watched as God finally opened Rachel's womb to bear him a son, Jacob flee from Laban and return to the promised land, Jacob wrestling with God and receiving a new name, and then the patriarch humbly coming to his brother Esau for reconciliation.  What a section full of beauty!

Genesis 30 began with Rachel being envious of her sister Leah (that was probably a first--tables turned), and in frustration trying to get Jacob to do something about it.  She's rather dramatic, too.  "Give me children, or I shall die!"  I guess us girls can get that way when we are jealous or bitter.  Not a good or godly place for a woman to be.

Jacob naturally gets angry with her and points out that only God can give or not give children.  So, she gives her maidservant to him to bear some children for her.  That seems to work, so Leah takes the challenge and does the same.  Pretty soon we learn how one man can have 12 sons.
  1. I love verse 22.  What does it say? 
  2. What does Laban recognize about Jacob in verse 27?
  3. What are God's instructions to Jacob in Gen. 31:3, 13?
  4. What really foolish sin does Rachel commit in Gen. 31:19?  Why do you think she did this, since she seemed to believe in the one true God?
When Laban catches up to Jacob, he tries to paint Jacob as the one in the wrong and himself as the good guy.  Remember, Laban does not only worship God, but the gods of his land, too.  Yet he recognizes that Jacob's God has blessed him on Jacob's behalf.  When I read his words in Gen. 31:26-28, all I can think is, "Yea, right."  But what Laban has witnessed of the power of Jacob's God, and the dream he had of God speaking to him, have put some fear of the LORD into him, thankfully.
  1. Notice what Jacob calls God in Gen. 31:42:  "If the God of my father, the God of Abraham and the __________________________ had not been on my side...."  What a powerful name!  Jacob seems to be intent on putting the fear of God into Laban's heart!  What did he tell Laban God had done to him in his dream?
  2. Notice verse 53 also.  What does Laban call God?  Wait a minute...there's a different name in there than what we are used to!  See if you can go back and remember who Nahor was...and why Laban would include his name here (hint:  Genesis 11).
In chapter 32, we come to a huge turning point in Jacob's life and the history of God's chosen people.  This is evident right away with verse 1.
  1. What happened in verse 1?  Can you even imagine what that experience must have been like?  I think we would have responded as he did in verse 2.
  2. Take special note of how Jacob refers to himself over and over in this chapter and the next when it comes to encountering his brother, Esau, whom he cheated out of the firstborn blessing and took advantage of to get the firstborn birthright (i.e. not a very humble heart towards his brother in his younger years).  What does his heart condition seem to be now?  Find the words he uses regarding himself and Esau in verses 4, 5, 10, 18, 20.  (There's more in the next chapter, but stay here for now.)
Next, in Gen. 32:22-32, we come to a very climactic event in Jacob's life and the nation that will come from him.  Notice the first five words of verse 24.  This is key.  I can't even begin to emphasize the importance of having time alone so that God can meet you and take you to a new place in your journey with Him.  This is HARD for women to do with all of the demands on our time.  That is exactly why it is absolutely so crucial!

I'm going to speak from very personal experience here.  I have a lot of "Mary" in me (if you've studied Mary and Martha, you get this), but when I am in "mom mode" I turn very much into a "Martha"--which goes against my natural personality and desires.  But something about raising children, managing a home and homeschooling can turn me into Martha lickity-split.  Yuck.  I hate that (although we read about a wonderful faith and relationship she had with Jesus as well...and somebody had to prepare the food for the Lord to eat!).

But I can very closely relate to the psalmist in Psalm 42:1-2:  "As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God.  My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.  When can I go and meet with God?" (emphasis mine)  There is truly nothing I long for more when I wake up than my time with Jesus (and a good cup of coffee to help me wake up at 5am...but He's still #1).  Sometimes, however, I hear a pitter-patter down the hallway that tells me my longing might be delayed.  "When can I go and meet with you, Lord?"

I could sit and write like this about God's Word for hours, too, because I love His Word more than life itself.  I love sharing His Word and seeing others get excited about all the treasures to be found in it!

Well, back in 2004, I had been seeking God's will for my life because of some unrest in my soul.  I knew He was trying to tell me something, but I was having a hard time discerning what it was.  Then one night I couldn't sleep.  It was the middle of the night, and everyone was asleep, so I decided to take advantage of the quiet and go spend some time with God and His Word.  I had no idea I was about to "wrestle with God" most of the night.

I prayed earnestly, read eagerly, and sought the Lord's guidance, listening with all my might and hoping to hear an answer.  Tears flowed as I prayed and listened.  Prayed and listened.  Then God led me to open my Bible to His Word to me at that moment in that circumstance, and I no longer wondered--I KNEW.  As God changed Jacob's name to Israel after his wrestling experience that led him to cry, "Do not let me go until you bless me!", so God changed my entire world with this Scripture:
At the Potter’s House (Jeremiah 18:1-6)
 1 This is the word that came to Jeremiah from the LORD: 2 “Go down to the potter’s house, and there I will give you my message.” 3 So I went down to the potter’s house, and I saw him working at the wheel. 4 But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him.
 5 Then the word of the LORD came to me: 6 “O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter does?” declares the LORD. “Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel.  (emphasis mine)

I knew exactly what God was telling me.  It was as if He had changed my name, just like He did Jacob.  He was ready to shape me into a new vessel for His purposes--and I needed to be very pliable and ready for change.  My whole focus in life changed from that point on.  I left my career behind, trusting God to provide as He used me to do His work.  And He has been incredibly faithful.  He always is!

What I want to leave you with as you read over chapter 33, Jacob's encounter with his brother Esau, is this.  Jacob was a completely different man now than the last time he saw his brother.  It was not so much all the wives, children, flocks, herds, servants and possessions that made him different.  What made him different was a humbled spirit.  Time walking with the Lord will do that to a person.

Maturity in our faith doesn't happen over night.  It is a process.  Sanctification is a process.  We must be willing to go the marathon of faith, not just a sprint to the finish line.  Jacob had been through a marathon with God.  His time serving Laban had changed him from a bratty younger brother wanting all the best in life, to a mature patriarch ready to lead God's people.  Sometimes the best thing that can happen to us is to not get what we want.  God does A LOT in the waiting.  Jacob believed in God's promises to his grandfather and his father, and now to him.  The "Fear of Isaac" was His God, and Jacob was a willing servant.

During that wrestling match, something else happened.  In addition to a new name, Jacob was also given a blow to the hip.
  • What was he doing, according to Gen. 32:31, as he went to meet Esau?
Picture the scene.  Envoys with gifts to appease his brother, servants with humble words for Esau, and now here comes his younger brother, limping. 

The beauty of chapter 33 is the reconciliation that happens between these two brothers.  That's what our God is all about.  That's why He sent His Son, to reconcile us to Himself.  But it takes a broken spirit and a contrite heart...and sometimes a limp...to get us there.

The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit;
   a broken and contrite heart,
   O God, you will not despise.
(Psalm 51:17)

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Abraham, Isaac and Jacob (Gen. 24-29)

In our last two days of readings this week, we see the life of the first Patriarch end and the lives of his son and grandson continue the covenantal blessing from God.  Did you LOVE the story of Abraham securing a wife for his son Isaac?  I guess I'm a hopeless romantic, but it doesn't get much more beautiful than this one.
  1. How did Abraham go about finding a wife for his son Isaac?  What were his instructions?
  2. What did his servant do in Gen. 24:12-14, specifically the first words of v. 12?
  3. This was a rather bold and specific prayer Abraham's servant made, but would we expect him to do any less?  Should we do any less?  I am always so blessed when my father-in-law tells me how they prayed for the future spouses of all their children as they were growing up, and how I am God's answer to their prayers for Michael.  Do you pray for your children's future spouses?  If not, why not start today!  The person they choose to spend the rest of their life with will greatly impact their future and yours.  While you're at it, pray for the parents raising those precious children that will become part of your family.  They might just be praying for you and your child, too!
  4. What did God do in response to the servant's prayer?  Take special note of these words:  Before he had finished praying, Rebekah came out with her jar on her shoulder. (Gen. 24:15a; emphasis mine)  Don't you love how God already has the answer planned--He just wants us to join Him in His perfect plan so we can rejoice in His provision!  (We tend to notice his provision more when we've been praying for it!)  Rebekah's brother and father see God's hand in it, too.  Read her brother Laban's words in Gen. 24:50-52.  How did the servant respond to all of this?
I absolutely love reading the part of this story when the servant is returning with Rebekah and she sees Isaac from afar.  When she learns that the man she sees is her groom, she covers herself with a veil...just like a bride.  Then the two become husband and wife through the act of becoming one flesh, and "Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death."  Now that is a love story worth preserving for all time!

Were you ready for Abraham to die so soon?  I wasn't.  I know he was 175 years old, but I wasn't ready for his part of the story to be over just yet.  But I suppose we can get all the other details of his life one day in heaven.  I might just have to pull up my chair and ask him to tell "the rest of the story."  I can hardly wait!

I cannot even fathom the family dynamics at Abraham's funeral.  Did you notice God is already keeping His promise to bless Abraham's descendants?  See if you can find the verse in ch. 25 that tells us this.

Now it's your turn.  Study the birth of Esau and Jacob in Gen. 25:19-34, and see how many significant things you can find for this family and the future nation that will come from them.  Remember to take special note of names and their meanings, because they usually prophesy what will happen in that person's life.  See if you can find study notes in your Bible that explain the significance of the birthright in Biblical history.

Did you find some interesting stuff?  Now look at ch. 26.
  1. What does God tell Isaac to do in verse 2?  Sound familiar? 
  2. Read God's words to Isaac in vv. 3-5.  Why does God promise to do all of this for Isaac (see verse 5)?  The reality is, our obedience (or disobedience) impacts our children and future descendants.  (More about this when God gives Moses the Ten Commandments.)
  3. Did vv. 6-11 sound like a rediculous re-run?  I mean, really, did Abraham forget to tell Isaac not to repeat this deception of the "shes's my sister" line?  What was the name of the king, and in what land did they settle?  Compare this with Gen. 20:2.  Really?  A king by the same name in the same country fell for the same sinful deception by the same family of patriarchs.  What a weird coincidence.  Read Matthew Henry's commentary, stating that this was not the same man, but another by the same name.  Soap opera stuff, sister.
  4. What did the LORD do in v. 24, and what was Isaac's response in v. 25?  How do we know that the LORD is once again keeping His promise?  Read vv.28-29 for the answer.  Isaac is now God's witness to other nations!
  5. As a further reminder of our need to pray for our children's future spouses and raise them to choose godly partners for life, read about the family strife caused by Esau's heathen Hittite wives in Gen. 26:35.  Let us not take this truth lightly!  Not only do we need to pray for the ones they will marry, but we need to prepare our children to be good spouses themselves.
In Genesis 27, Rebekah falls to the temptation of being deceptive.  God had promised her that Jacob would rule over his brother (Gen. 25:23), but she's not willing to wait for God to do this.  So, like her mother-in-law Sarah, she takes matters into her own hands. 
  • This is an excellent section of Scripture for you to take and dig deeper, using the 3-question method at the bottom of your reading plan.  Be sure to write down all that you learn.
Genesis 28 opens with Isaac sending Jacob to his brother-in-law Laban to find a wife (same place Abraham sent his servant to find a wife for Isaac).  He speaks quite a blessing over his son in the first few verses.  On his way, Jacob lays down to sleep and has an incredible dream.  You may have heard of "Jacob's ladder" in children's bible stories or songs.
  1. What promise does the LORD give Jacob during this dream?
  2. What does Jacob say about that place?
  3. What does he do there, and what does he vow to do in the future?
Genesis 29 is another love story of a groom finding his bride, but this one gets messy (thanks to the father-of-the-bride).  I love how, when the other shepherds gathered at the well tell Jacob they need to wait to remove the stone until the other flocks arrive, but then Jacob sees Rachel approaching and turns into macho-man.  Did you catch that?  What did he do all by himself in verse 10?  Rolling stones away seems to be God's specialty, doesn't it?  Either God or some serious adrenaline helped Jacob roll that stone all on his own!

As you read how things unfolded for Jacob and Rachel, I'm sure you were outraged at Laban's deceitfulness.  This repeated sin seems to be the downfall of this whole family, doesn't it?  But did you feel sorry for Leah, too?  Notice the names she gives her sons and what she says:
  1. Reuben--"for now my husband will love me"
  2. Simeon--"because the LORD has heard that I am hated"
  3. Levi--"now this time my husband will be attached to me"
  4. Judah--"This time I will praise the LORD."
My heart goes out to Leah, because it was her father's sin that brought this upon her.  She didn't really have a choice in the matter.  Her words after her first three sons' births are so sad to me.  What woman could endure knowing she is not loved by her husband?  She hopes for the best each time, but it is not to be.

So finally, when she brings forth her fourth son, she gives him a very different name than the others--Judah, the Hebrew word for "praise."  She resolves that in the midst of her difficult life, she will praise the LORD.  God is good, whether or not her circumstances are good.  This son, Judah, is not only a turning point in her life with God but a turning point for all mankind.  From Judah's descendants would come the promised Messiah--Jesus Christ!

Let's close with the blessing Jacob will prophesy over his fourth son in our readings next week, and the words spoken to the disciple John concerning the fulfillment of this prophesy in Revelation.

Genesis 49:8-10 

 8 “Judah, your brothers will praise you;
   your hand will be on the neck of your enemies;
   your father’s sons will bow down to you.
9 You are a lion’s cub, O Judah;
   you return from the prey, my son.
Like a lion he crouches and lies down,
   like a lioness—who dares to rouse him?
10 The scepter will not depart from Judah,
   nor the ruler’s staff from between his feet,
until he comes to whom it belongs
   and the obedience of the nations is his.  


Revelation 5:5
And one of the elders said to me, "Weep no more; behold, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has conquered, so that he can open the scroll and its seven seals." 

Leah, weep no more, but rather praise your God, because your promised Redeemer will surely come.